Don't worry about
what will happen after you are gone, because when you return to dust, you
will feel nothing about praises or criticisms.
Don't worry too
much about your children for children will have their own destiny and find
their own way.
Don't be your
children's slave
Don't expect too
much from your children. Caring children, though caring, would be too busy
with their jobs and commitments to render any help.
Uncaring children may fight over your assets even when you are still alive,
and wish for your early demise so they can inherit your properties.
Your children take
for granted that they are rightful heirs to your wealth; but you have no
claims to their money.
60-year olds like
you, dont trade in your health for wealth anymore………….
Because your money may
not be able to buy your health………
When to stop
making money, and how much is enough (hundred thousands, million, ten
million)?
Out of thousand
hectares of good farm land, you can only consume three quarts (of rice)
daily;
out of a thousand of
mansions, you only need eight square meters of space to rest at night.
So as long as you
have enough food and enough money to spend, that is good enough. So you
should live happily.
Every family has
its own problems. Just do not compare with others for fame and social
status and see whose children are doing better, etc. but challenge others
for happiness, health and longevity………….
Dont worry about
things that you can't change because it doesnt help and it may spoil your
health.
You have to create
your own well-being and find your own happiness;
As long as you are in good mood, think about happy things, do happy things
daily and have fun in doing, then you will pass your time happily every
day.
One day passes,
you will lose one day;…One day passes with happiness, and then you gain one
day.
In good spirit,
sickness will cure; in happy spirit, sickness will cure fast; in good and
happy spirit; sickness will never come.
With good mood, suitable amount of exercise, always in the sun, variety of
foods, reasonable amount of vitamin and mineral intake, hopefully you will
live another 20 or 30 years of healthy life.
Above all learn to
cherish the goodness around ……and FRIENDS……..they all make you feel young
and "wanted"…without them you are surely to feel lost!!
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