Saturday, May 31, 2014

singing competition between seniors and middle aged

My dear Friend Sathayam and his friends have started Sarthi Society for conducting activities for Sr. Citizens. I provided my “Marigold the little hall “free for conducting singing competition between seniors and middle aged. The competition was held yesterday and there was tremendous response so it went on from 10am to 5 pm. There was a participant who came on wheel chair. If everyone does this little for our own society then we can change the world. — at Marigold Hall, Tholiya Bhavan, Santacruz East, Mumbai . 
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Monday, May 19, 2014

Novel way of facilitating elder brother and senior citizen


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81st birthday and 60th marriage anniversary. I uploaded these photos but did not get time to write synopsis. And I thought that someone from my family will fill the gap but no one did so And I am doing so now. Firstly I avoid personal things being broadcasted unless it has a message for others. This is step in that direction. My Jijaji ( sisters husband) Shri D C kala lost his father at an early age. He and other young siblings were brought up, given education, good guidance ( sanskar) and upbringing by eldest brother Shri Hukamchand ji Kala. At that time he too hardly had any money and yet he shared and cared for all of them with his mite.As times passed all these young brothers and sisters have become a very successful persons in life. My jijaji thought of making this fact known to all and thus he and his brothers decided to felicitate Babaji ( as eldest brother is popularly known as ) on his 81st B'day.Incidentally this was his 61st marriage anniversary too so respected Bhabhi Tarabai too was in full life light. This is an era when most of us forget contributions made by others in our life ( specially except parent and some are so low that they even fail to acknowledge sacrifices of parents) and in that era this grand felicitations. Day long function : Puja and archana in Jain Temple. Then Babaji and Bhabhiji ( brothers wife) were taken to hall in a ratha yatra( chariot) with band and dance, then all brothers and family did pada prakshal ( washed feet to bhaisahab / Babaji ( highest honour normally only allowed for saints), then Tula daan where Babaji was made to seat on side of weighing balance and other side was filled with items of variety and then donated to needy besides 41000/- cash was donated to various temples. It did not end here then we had modern B'day celebrations with toast to B'day baby, cake cutting , free for all dancing and singing , lavish dinner and so on. BUT I WAS MOST MOVED BY THE NOVEL WAY OF FACILITATING ELDERS OF FAMILY. MAY ALL OF US RECOGNISE CONTRIBUTIONS OF OTHERS AND ELDERS IN OUR LIFE WHILE THEY ARE LIVING AND DO IT OPENLY INSTEAD OF KEEPING IT AS A SECRET AS A MEAN MINDED WOULD.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2014

after you are gone

Don't worry about what will happen after you are gone, because when you return to dust, you will feel nothing about praises or criticisms.

Don't worry too much about your children for children will have their own destiny and find their own way.
Don't be your children's slave

Don't expect too much from your children. Caring children, though caring, would be too busy with their jobs and commitments to render any help.

Uncaring children may fight over your assets even when you are still alive, and wish for your early demise so they can inherit your properties.

Your children take for granted that they are rightful heirs to your wealth; but you have no claims to their money.

60-year olds like you, dont trade in your health for wealth anymore………….
Because your money may not be able to buy your health………
When to stop making money, and how much is enough (hundred thousands, million, ten million)?

Out of thousand hectares of good farm land, you can only consume three quarts (of rice) daily;
out of a thousand of mansions, you only need eight square meters of space to rest at night.

So as long as you have enough food and enough money to spend, that is good enough. So you should live happily.
Every family has its own problems. Just do not compare with others for fame and social status and see whose children are doing better, etc. but challenge others for happiness, health and longevity………….
Dont worry about things that you can't change because it doesnt help and it may spoil your health.

You have to create your own well-being and find your own happiness;

As long as you are in good mood, think about happy things, do happy things daily and have fun in doing, then you will pass your time happily every day.

One day passes, you will lose one day;…One day passes with happiness, and then you gain one day.

In good spirit, sickness will cure; in happy spirit, sickness will cure fast; in good and happy spirit; sickness will never come.

With good mood, suitable amount of exercise, always in the sun, variety of foods, reasonable amount of vitamin and mineral intake, hopefully you will live another 20 or 30 years of healthy life.

Above all learn to cherish the goodness around ……and FRIENDS……..they all make you feel young and "wanted"…without them you are surely to feel lost!!

Sunday, May 4, 2014

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