Firstly it is a very big moral responsibility to share all vital facts before fixing a marriage with opposite party.
Secondly when we obtain fitness certificate before emplyuing a person why we dont do that before fixing a marriage?
thirdly when we want title clear certificate before buying a property then why we dont seek title clear before fixing a marriage and then aftre marriage all kinds of relations come to light.
Society and govt should form set of rules asking compulsorily to disclose in writing vital info from both side before marriage.Any info undisclosed and found later which affects severally marriage and families then the person and family hiding such info shud be severally punished.
Alok Tholiya....
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'Abstinence' costs hubby dear
MUMBAI: A 29-year-old beautician has filed a case of harassment against her husband for non-consummation of marriage, despite having lived together for two years. She has also accused her in-laws of humiliating her over dowry. Her husband, a manager with a bank at Churchgate, was arrested by the Vakola police last week while her in-laws are wanted.
"We have slapped charges of dowry harassment on the victim's in-laws and recorded a supplementary statement against her husband for non-consummation of marriage. We will now take the opinion of a public prosecutor on it," a police official said.
Rakhi and Sanjeev (names changed) had an arranged marriage in January 2008 and stayed in a joint family. Sanjeev's elder brother is attached to the RPF.
"Even after the marriage, Sanjeev used to sleep with his parents. Initially, he told me that he was preparing for MBA and did not want to get intimate with me, as he feared losing focus over his studies. I decided to give him some time. But he kept coming up with excuses as time passed," Rakhi told TOI.
"Sanjeev claimed he was looking for a separate house for us as we had no privacy at his parents' place. Six months later, when he couldn't find a new house, Sanjeev claimed he had bigger responsibilities such as securing his sisters' future (one of his sisters was going through a divorce while another is a widow)," Rakhi added. "In November 2008, my in-laws travelled to their hometown in Rae Bareilly. But Sanjeev refused to stay alone with me and sent me away to his brother's place. My brother-in-law tried to intervene, but in vain."
In May 2010, Rakhi slit her wrists in a bid to end her life. Her family then met her husband and in-laws, but it did not work out. Rakhi eventually lodged a police complaint after she was thrown out of her husband's house earlier this month. Sanjeev, who is out on bail, denied the charges.
"We have slapped charges of dowry harassment on the victim's in-laws and recorded a supplementary statement against her husband for non-consummation of marriage. We will now take the opinion of a public prosecutor on it," a police official said.
Rakhi and Sanjeev (names changed) had an arranged marriage in January 2008 and stayed in a joint family. Sanjeev's elder brother is attached to the RPF.
"Even after the marriage, Sanjeev used to sleep with his parents. Initially, he told me that he was preparing for MBA and did not want to get intimate with me, as he feared losing focus over his studies. I decided to give him some time. But he kept coming up with excuses as time passed," Rakhi told TOI.
"Sanjeev claimed he was looking for a separate house for us as we had no privacy at his parents' place. Six months later, when he couldn't find a new house, Sanjeev claimed he had bigger responsibilities such as securing his sisters' future (one of his sisters was going through a divorce while another is a widow)," Rakhi added. "In November 2008, my in-laws travelled to their hometown in Rae Bareilly. But Sanjeev refused to stay alone with me and sent me away to his brother's place. My brother-in-law tried to intervene, but in vain."
In May 2010, Rakhi slit her wrists in a bid to end her life. Her family then met her husband and in-laws, but it did not work out. Rakhi eventually lodged a police complaint after she was thrown out of her husband's house earlier this month. Sanjeev, who is out on bail, denied the charges.
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